girlfriend question

[criminally_minded]

[Dragonlady8]

Dees Babe~ I guess you were just too busy licking your screen to remember.

[forwaken]

Deep thoughts, by Kyle Wells. Very true though. I try to live life the "spitting" way. Don't expect anything, you only set yourself up for dissapointment (sp?), instead make it what you want it. I went through the begining of High School expecting everything and it led to massive migraines. I learned early in life to let the shizzle be.

Phantom- I feel you on the troubled childhood, I was raised in a divorced, alcoholic, drugy, jailtime family but I still always think it could have been worse and that gives relief. On your brothers, education used unwisely leads to destruction. It seems they may be hiding insecurities. BTW What state school did you go to? I am about to graduate from one myself and I don't think it is all that bad.

[ohsix]

I dont think family life has as big of an effect on how people turn out as most people think. I think it's the kid that determines how successful he or she is going to be. Two of my best friends in high school and still 2 of my best friends had totally opposite family lives and so far have turned out almost opposite. One of them we'll call him James comes from a good family with two parents, and two sisters, and spend a lot of time together and go to church. James is what some people call a screw-up. He pretty much failed every class his first semester of college decided he didn't like college and quit. He has never had a job longer than a few months and most people would say he just doesn't have much potential. The other one, we'll call him Greg was raised by his alcoholic dad who didnt have much sympathy for him. Greg, on his own, got a scholarship to go to the private school we attended, always had a job and paid for his car, insurance, gas, clothes, etc. He stayed back home for his first semester of college and made good grades and is now in his second semester and he will be going to Embry-Riddle aeronautical university next year on scholarship. This just goes to show that it's not the cards your dealt, but how you play the hand.

In high school I dated some girls that would blame their problems on their parents and family. I didn't date them for long because I can't stand someone that won't take responsibility for themselves.

While an encouraging family life may help with self-esteem, I don't buy the excuse that family is responsible for people's problems such as self-esteem. This is not meant to be an attack on anyone that blames their low self-esteem or problems on their family, but it is meant to be motivation. If you have an excuse for your problems, what motivation do you have to make them better? Blame your problems on yourself and you will realize that only you can make them better.

[jt09]

Can we get back to discussing shaved snatches please? Where's Chales when you need him?

[Dees]

phantom5815 is, the bomb, successful, happy, beutiful, one of a kind, determined, knows what she wants, sexy, encouraging, helpful, athletic and an all around cool person. Wish she lived on the west side so we could hang out.


Working all the time on degrees and at work won't make you happy, phantom your a better person then that.

[B-rad]

Yeah jt, no more talk about real conversations in a thread dedicated to the "bald eagle" and her "feathered friends". Wes, We can use that as inspiration in another thread for all the people that b*tch about the uselessness of thsi site and the lackof content. Good story though. Let's get back to the idea of a Brazillian....

[Dees]

here someting I found from a true friend (i cant belive i still had this email from the old site) about advice,

Dees- the only advise I can give to you from this
point:
PLEASE BE EXTRA CAREFUL WITH SHARP INSTRUMENTS! I've
been cut before and it will take away all your fun for
the rest of the evening or week.
Just take is slow like a beard -trim before you shave.
Skin conditioning lotion after shaving is a must!
I don't know the name of the stuff they use on me
after waxing.
Have fun....

and

p.s. well, i should ask if she liked it...that way she'll be more apt to
"keeping" it that way. so it's your job to comment the hell out of it with
"omg, you look amazing, it feels amazing, blah blah blah amazing..." see what
i mean?

names of the contributors have been kept anonymous for there sake

if i find anymore suggest i'll post them

[Premier135Chick]

Life is what you make of it. I am the only one out of all my sibilings to go to college. My parents didn't even graduate from high school. It has been a pain in the arse, but we all make our own decisions on how we live our life. Do what makes you happy. You shouldn't have to live up to anyone elses standards!!

[Dees]

more (names of the contributors have been kept anonymous for there sake)

Ok Dees I didn't think my response should be public so
here are some options:

1. A friend of mine became extremely self consciuos
when he man get down on her and came back up" Ptooey,
Ptooey" spitting out hairs....I know a little crass
but she took care of that problem.

2 Ask if she knows what a Brazilian wax job is?
Give you an out an just throw it on the board for
curiosty sake. That way you can say your read it
somewhere.
This waxing is extremely painful since it removes all
the hair, yes I did say ALL.

3) This may option may get you some grief -
Suggest that the both of you give each other a "shave
and Hair cut" that way you guys can have some erotic
fun.

Good luck.....

[Dees]

this one was classic:


The few times in the past when running into this problem(it does not seem to
be an issue since the early 90's models hit the floor) with my boats I have
proceeded this way.

Sometimes the boat does not know the trim is not working adequately. As we
all know, every driver likes the trim set a bit different. The boat also
thinks that it may have problems with itching due to the rapidly regrowth of
moss around the trim. Usually after a few beers, I would get my confidence
up and nudge the trim a bit. Usually the boat does not want to work the
trim by itself at first. That is perfect, because I love to use my well
honed skills to assist. After time, it should just become a daily process
for your boat to trim itself every morning while docked, before a day on the
lake.

My current boat just goes to the shop for a monthly waxing of the trim
accessories. Though this maintenance is a bit more costly and a bit painful
for the boat, it lasts longer and seems to be worth the drawbacks.

Note....Matt is correct....trimming always cleans up the wake. In fact, I
don't know anyone that chooses to leave their trim down in their boat. It
is much more fun to play with it a bit until you can get what you consider a
perfect wake.

Anyway....good luck.

[K-dub]

those are good dees!

[ohsix]

i think scottie v. had a pretty funny post on that old thread about trimming and boat wakes.

[Dees]

those are from the old Forums 'celebs w/o makeup' and 'how do you bring up...' does anyone remember what rachael p, said about her VLX in that post.

the trim/wake post was from J.T.

[jt09]

Way to get us back on track strong Dees!

[Dees]

true

[Lindsay]

IMO shaving is the way to go, but if shaving and waxing are too scary for her, try a cream hair remover like Bikini Bare. This would work for you fellas too. Completely painless, you just have to kick it in the bathroom spread eagle style for about 15 minutes.

[criminally_minded]

Good visual.....

[Dragonlady8]

Just say NO TO SHAVING!!!! Waxing is the only way to go...especially of the Waxer is a good looking guy
Hair cream remover works well on fine hair, Brillo & Briar patches need a hedge trimmer.

Dees~ those where great tidbits of advise........

PS Thanks all your input

[Leggester]

Phantom, low self esteem? I don't talk to just anyone you know. Don't make me crawl through the ISP and knock some sense into you.

Methinks I'll have to have a serious chat with you about that.