personal PROBLEM!

criminally_minded · Posted: Jan 29, 2003 7:41 pm Post subject:

Good point brad! - Kyle: your intentions may have been exposed Wink

K-dub · Ladies Man Joined: 12 Jan 2003 Posts: 14760

nah, no chance!

bizzuck · Addict Joined: 12 Jan 2003 Posts: 593

sounds like she's a winner,,,,, WHAT !!! 18, i bet you pooed in your pants, hate it for ya bro...

Split · Newbie Joined: 12 Jan 2003 Posts: 49 City: Sou Cali

Well I don think that the age is a big deal. As long as she acts mature and what not and you two are both comfertable with the age go for it. Dont rush anythin just take things easy. My aunt and uncle are ten years apart in age. They have been happily married for 30 years not. So there is an example of the age difference.

RUSSIAN · Posted: Jan 29, 2003 11:05 pm Post subject:

I don't know bro, you can't even take her to a bar. If your not lookin to get seriuos then it's cool, but look at it this way, in 3 years she will just be turning 21 Shocked

thats a whole lot of growing up to do

K-dub · Ladies Man Joined: 12 Jan 2003 Posts: 14760

Russian:
you are thinking just like me.
I really don't know what to do here. I think I have it all figured out, then the next minute I find myself undressing her with my eyes! This sucks!
DRAMA! Rolling Eyes

Neognosis · Ladies Man Joined: 13 Jan 2003 Posts: 17617 City: Webster

Kyle, one day you will die.

Now get your head screwed on right and teach that 18 year old how a real man can make a woman feel in bed.

Nobody ever lays on their death bed and wished they had gotten less action, or wishes that they hadn't been with that young, firm 18 year old lass. (unless you are dying from a horrible STD, and your unit has fallen off. Then you might wish you had been with at least one less person).

christy · Posted: Jan 30, 2003 7:21 am Post subject:

Make a list...

Pros: She's hot, she gives you that incredible surge of sexual energy, she works - so we're assuming she's responsible, she wakeboards, she's intelligent - so she's capable of conversation, she's 18 - so I'm sure that strokes the ego, what else??

Cons: Did you say you work with her? That could be bad in the long run. She's not as mature or "experienced at life" as yourself, she will most likely change a lot in the next couple of years - so that means risk with your own feelings, she's young - and youngsters tend to think they're "in love" quickly in a relationship, she can't go to clubs with you, she can't drink with you (legally), her Dad may greet you with a shotgun, what else??

To sum up.... she makes you feel great, but how much of your current life style will you be compromising? And is that important to you? You date have a good time and to learn about people you have an interest in, and then decide if that person fits what you want for your life. Check it out, if it doesn't work then you've learned what works for you and what doesn't.

A guy I know left his wife and 2 teenage boys when he was 45 yrs old for a 20 yr old. She's now 23 and they're still together. So against odds, it's working for them. Everyone is an individual, only you can decide what's best for you.

Neognosis · Ladies Man Joined: 13 Jan 2003 Posts: 17617 City: Webster

Her not being able to go to a club might be a good thing. You can get away from her and go out on your own whenever you want.

So, there's this hot 18 year old interested in you. What a dilemma! Whaa, Whaa, there's a hot young girl who likes me, and I like her. What ever should I do? Life really sucks for you.

One day you'll get married. And if you don't enjoy that 18 year old, you will kick yourself later. I don't regret ANY of my past relationships, whether they lasted years or hours. In fact, I regret missing out on the few women that I passed up.

So maybe you get in over your head and she dumps you for someone her own age or she goes away to school or something. So what? Better to love and lose than never love at all, as they say.

K-dub · Ladies Man Joined: 12 Jan 2003 Posts: 14760

Christy:
Good advice! Gives me alot to think about....thanks!
Camera:
I do not recall where I was crying about this in any of my posts. Trust me bro, it is not that bad. If you knew me you'd understand i'm not stressing on it that hard. This is just the first time I have had to go through this dilema. I usually date girls much older than that is all........

JHrod · Wakeboarder.com Freak Joined: 12 Jan 2003 Posts: 3144

well one of christy's cons was---dad might meet u with a shotgun
---if this were to occur i think i might say ur hot but no thanks

buckthis · Posted: Jan 30, 2003 6:34 pm Post subject:

kyle, this is a no-brainer, she wakeboard and she is 18, date the hell out of her!

Funkster · Posted: Jan 30, 2003 6:36 pm Post subject:

My brotha Kyle, say it ain't so!!! Here is alittle quote from my man jigga that I try to live by "Me give my heart to a woman,not for nothin, never happen,I be forever mackin"!!! Those are the words of a very smart man!! Just messin' bro,if it feels right to YOU,go with it man,Good luck !!

ohsix · Posted: Jan 30, 2003 7:06 pm Post subject:

JHrod · Wakeboarder.com Freak Joined: 12 Jan 2003 Posts: 3144

is this what u were thinkin wes: kyle this is a no brainer, she's 18 and she boards, u need to bang the hell outta her Question

Sean_Brinston · Posted: Jan 30, 2003 7:57 pm Post subject:

I think you should post a pic , that will greatly help in our advice to you!

Sean_Brinston · Posted: Jan 30, 2003 7:58 pm Post subject:

Isnt it funny how when you are younger you are atrracted to the older ones(27-) and when your older your atracted to the younger ones?

ohsix · Posted: Jan 30, 2003 7:59 pm Post subject:

Nor*Cal · Ladies Man Joined: 12 Jan 2003 Posts: 9479 City: Sac

I just caught this...
Kyle you work with this girl? If she does are there company issues about doing that kinda thing. I have no problems fishing off the company dock or dipping your pen in the company ink, but you might consider those things.

K-dub · Ladies Man Joined: 12 Jan 2003 Posts: 14760

Hahahahaha! Laughing

Funk: You are a man of wisdom. Trust me, I am the king mack.....right now though, I just don't know. I'm too used to older women than that. It's just too close to high school for me, bro. If she was only 2-3 yrs older, this would'nt even be an issue....She would've been on the boat hte first hour I knew her.....no pun intended!
Josh and Wes: Trust me....that thought goes through my head about 1,000 times a day, maybe more......the banging thought that you speak of.... Laughing

Sean: You know, I was just having that same thought today. I was dating girls 5-8 yrs. older than me when I was 18-20. But now, it seems that I have been attracted to the 21-25,26 yr old girls....this is the first 18 though. It's tripping me out.....I want a rich 37 yr old MILF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Twisted Evil

ohsix · Posted: Jan 31, 2003 4:58 am Post subject:

Neognosis · Ladies Man Joined: 13 Jan 2003 Posts: 17617 City: Webster

I was just kidding about the crying part, kyle.

Sounds like you might lose her if you don't put some kind of plan into action. 18 year olds who are attractive usually don't have much patience, and they have a lot of options.

Leggester · Posted: Jan 31, 2003 6:12 am Post subject:

Kyle, personally, I wouldn't date anyone more than a quarter century younger than myself. Therefore, she'd have to be 19!

Rolling Eyes

RUSSIAN · Posted: Jan 31, 2003 8:35 am Post subject:

dirty thirties with cash Very Happy

King of the Tigers · Posted: Jan 31, 2003 8:48 am Post subject:

Kyle, just don't do anything I wouldn't do! j/k. Seriously I say give it some time to see what happens then discuss it with her. If she's cool she won't mind talking about it.

Dees · Posted: Jan 31, 2003 9:14 am Post subject:

"we'd be luck if found a spot next to your sister, dam i really miss her, the way she use to rub my back, when I hit that, the way she use to giggle when your a$s would jiggle. R.I.P Biggie Small

Aubs · Motorboat Queen Joined: 12 Jan 2003 Posts: 9167

okay ~ most of u are just gunna think im some sicko... but i honestly think that older men are the best. i think that pierce brosnan is gorgeous & that my 45 year old gym teacher should be a model. i like older guys sssooo much more then guys my age - they have more experience with life...

BR_WB · Wakeboarder.com Freak Joined: 12 Jan 2003 Posts: 2850

Uh Aubs don't let that end up on Court TV.
Later,
Brad

JHrod · Wakeboarder.com Freak Joined: 12 Jan 2003 Posts: 3144

wes---i have an idea Idea

u take one olsen twin of ur choice and i shall take the other one Very Happy

u want mary-kate or ashley Question

ohsix · Posted: Feb 01, 2003 5:33 pm Post subject:

K-dub · Ladies Man Joined: 12 Jan 2003 Posts: 14760

Alright, I have made the decision to stop the pursuit. No matter what I try to tell myself, I just cant get over the fact that she is sooooo young. Plus, I found something to distract my attention from her at the club last night.... Laughing

I really am tripping on myself though. I don't understand why I got all freaked out this time? WIERD!!!!

$-[]0[][]V[][]0-$ · Criminal Joined: 12 Jan 2003 Posts: 99 City: san jose

They sell blow up dolls with an age option now?

JHrod · Wakeboarder.com Freak Joined: 12 Jan 2003 Posts: 3144

wes---sounds good---i can live with the name mary-kate......maybe i will shorten it so it will be like Kate -or- Mary -or........ hey u get me a beer Twisted Evil

j/k

Jam · Outlaw Joined: 14 Jan 2003 Posts: 141 City: Indy

Kyle give her a pull Wink

You may be going to hell in a bucket so you can atleast enjoy the ride. The up side you can leave her to go to the bar.

Dees · Posted: Feb 03, 2003 7:30 am Post subject:

atleast you have the option. Send her my way would ya??