girlfriend question

WakeRyd · Outlaw Joined: 14 Jan 2003 Posts: 180 City: Richmond, VA

how do you bring up the topic of shaving to your girlfriend? I'm not a big fan of things being "un-groomed" down there, and its starting to be annoying. any advice on how to bring it up to her?

ckligor · Soul Rider Joined: 18 Feb 2003 Posts: 454 City: A-town

I would just tell her.. What's the worst that can happen.. She can tell you to F-off and grow a jungle.

jt09 · Ladies Man Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Posts: 22083 City: Austin

Put it in the form of....Hey, let's do this together, I think it would be great, spice it up, etc... Get trimmers if you are going to leave a landing strip or triangle. After you have trimmed to desired height, both of you get in a hot soapy tub facing each other, her on top. Use a brand new blade (and throw it away afterwards). Be SUPER CAREFUL!!!!!! Remember, it what you WANT, but it is her goods! Have fun!

Dees · Posted: Mar 31, 2003 7:25 am Post subject:

oh great here we go again. I brought this up before the site crashed and it didn't last very long. Well I would agree jt09, that you bring it up that you both do it. You'll both really enjoy the end product. Just make her feel good about it and be very careful when doing it. And when it happen tell her how amazing it looks, feels etc.

or ask her what a Brazilian Wax is

WakeRyd · Outlaw Joined: 14 Jan 2003 Posts: 180 City: Richmond, VA

thanks for the help, saturday night was good but like i said before i'm not a big fan of the un groomed look

Leggester · Posted: Mar 31, 2003 9:35 am Post subject:

Depends on how old she is. If she's in here twenties and not already trimming, get a new one.

B-rad · Posted: Mar 31, 2003 9:53 am Post subject:

Don't go DT for awhile, when she asks why you are not tell her the chaffing from the hair have caused an irratation. Then say yoiu aren't going DT till the "chaffing" problem goes away or she shaves. Or you could be honest with her and tell her to get out of the freaking 70's and get rid of the bat cave. I prefer the "bald eagle" to the "feathered freinds".

WakeRyd · Outlaw Joined: 14 Jan 2003 Posts: 180 City: Richmond, VA

b-rad that's pretty funny

Raider Lefty · Soul Rider Joined: 10 Feb 2003 Posts: 470 City: The 713

Amen brother B! I too am a fan of the "bald eagle" look.

JT - You act like you've done that before bro!

Seriously though - is the any single thing more annoying in the world than witnessing the birthday suit for the 1st time and discovering it's a jungle down there? (I'm choosing my words carefully Pat!)

WakeRyd · Outlaw Joined: 14 Jan 2003 Posts: 180 City: Richmond, VA

yeah that's the worst, its almost like waiving a treat in front of a dogs face than taking it away....

core-rider · Addict Joined: 12 Jan 2003 Posts: 531 City: Huntsville, AL

Tell her if see does it you will follow. If your both into oral then she might like the idea and be willing to try. I've never had a complaint yet... Twisted Evil

Dragonlady8 · Guest

HEHEHEHEHEHEHEH>>>>this is too funny. Just like Dees said We already went through tis before the site crashed.
Pretty much the samething was said then too. Hmmmmmmmm, oh here's something to think about.
Razor stubble/burn isn't a very fun feeling Shocked

Nor*Cal · Ladies Man Joined: 12 Jan 2003 Posts: 9479 City: Sac

Could you just get a gift certificate for a brazilian wax? If I had your problem I'd look into something like that... Maybe like a day at some span type thing that includes the brazilian...

I think the direct approach is the best way. But you better be willing to do it also...

robby j · Outlaw Joined: 13 Jan 2003 Posts: 198 City: Galena, Nevada

i had that problem and i just told her that i honestly felt like it would be more pleasurable for her because i would enjoy being down there more...also i infiltrated her friends and told them to bring up in conversation "how good it feels to be shaved down there and how much their boyfriends liked it"...worked in about 2 days

Kinky · Outlaw Joined: 13 Jan 2003 Posts: 218 City: Niagara Falls

Just a hint for the girls...

Try sugaring, not wax, it hurts wayyyyy lesssss!!! Wink

Dragonlady8 · Guest

Getting a professional waxing is the way to go. I wouldn't recommend a Brazilian right off hand. Bikini then gradually increase the area of waxing. I guarantee that you won't be able to touch her for at least a few weeks if it's a Brazilian.
I don't recommend do-it-yourself home kits either. Shocked

Heezey · Posted: Mar 31, 2003 4:45 pm Post subject:

Waxing seems so painful though

Leggester · Posted: Mar 31, 2003 4:46 pm Post subject:

Possibly date a non-hairy gal? Just a thought.

Dragonlady8 · Guest

Waxing is painful, but after a few times it's not so bad.
A word of advise though......don't get a bikini/brazilian waxing done if you'r within 1wk of your menstual cycle. It is hypersensitive in that area during that time..... Crying or Very sad

Partyb · Posted: Mar 31, 2003 8:06 pm Post subject:

I am not sure if I should be saying this but...., for us guys, if you do some grooming down there as well I expect you will get more business in that department too. What's good for the goose is good for the gander. Works for me.

Raider Lefty · Soul Rider Joined: 10 Feb 2003 Posts: 470 City: The 713

Absolutely PartyB! It was explained to me like this - would you wanna "service" that? If not then trim it.

Dragonlady8 · Guest

Wow , a few Guys with common sense/courtesy Exclamation

where have you been hiding all my life? Wink

Partyb · Posted: Mar 31, 2003 8:14 pm Post subject:

Dude, Raider, I was afraid of being labeled a homo for mentioning that (not that there is anything wrong with that), but if you wanna get more action in that department, you gotta do what you gotta do.

How many of you ladies prefer their man trimmed too?

Dragonlady8 · Guest

I prefer not having to root my way through a Brillo pad and a Briar patch.... Neutral

forwaken · Addict Joined: 28 Jan 2003 Posts: 635 City: Turlock, CA

I'll back you too Party-B, hell as Mark and Brian put it once, "one its airy, but more important than that it looks like you gained 1-2 inches as well." It gets the job done for me as well. It makes it much more enjoyable for me and the wifey.

Nor*Cal · Ladies Man Joined: 12 Jan 2003 Posts: 9479 City: Sac

haha

I just figure you can't complain if you aren't willing to do it also. Beware of gold bond.

jedsterr · Soul Rider Joined: 13 Jan 2003 Posts: 291 City: Star Idaho

what's everyone talking about. could some one please post a picture to explain?

thanks!

jedsterr · Soul Rider Joined: 13 Jan 2003 Posts: 291 City: Star Idaho

snicker snicker snicker

orzech · Posted: Mar 31, 2003 8:50 pm Post subject:

grab a long pubic hair(yours or hers w/out noticing)and after you get done with your "business" put it between your front teeth and lift up your lip and asker her

"Do I have anything in my teeth. I feel soemthing in there"
hahah Wink

matt 4 · Posted: Mar 31, 2003 9:04 pm Post subject:

just wait untill she is alseep and start up the weedeater and go to town

jt09 · Ladies Man Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Posts: 22083 City: Austin

Lefty - Good to have you back on bro! Yes, I have done it before - good fun for all!

Good story about a girl who doesn't dig the briar patch. She told me if the kisses good, he can go downtown, if he performs well there, she'll go downtown, if everything is good there, she'll do the deed. So she is all fired up because she goes out and finds a good looking stud type and he kisses well (she is hot, but doesn't go out much). So she takes him home and he performs well on his end of the deal. As he prepares for the return favor, she notices his untrimmed package and flat out tells him NO. And not just "no" but no, get your clothes on and go home! She described it as a chia pet with a nose. I couldn't believe she actually kicked the guy out of her house for not trimming!

Leggester · Posted: Apr 01, 2003 8:54 am Post subject:

You're all wet here guys. Why bother to try and change the person. Either they're already doing this or not ( I do not mean under 18 year olds, they do not count )

Go find someone that already fits the profile. Or, suck it up! hehehe.

Premier135Chick · Guest

I agree with the "grooming together" idea. It works and everyone benefits. Girls don't like brillo pads either!!!! Wink

Dees · Posted: Apr 01, 2003 12:49 pm Post subject:

Mandy · Newbie Joined: 04 Feb 2003 Posts: 28 City: Austin, Tx

Wow....you guys are awesome. I hope everything went well.
I am sure you anticipate a great time Laughing

Good luck