attention ppl with children: do u put them in day care?

RUSSIAN · Posted: Feb 05, 2003 11:38 pm Post subject:

Base, your spelling makes me believe there is no hope for the human race. For someone that claims to be so intelligent, you really look like a bonehead. Put down the pipe and the vodka and take care of your kids, I think I here them crying.
The moon does exsist
Child care is the only real option for most poeple
Your still an idiot
Very Happy

base · Outlaw Joined: 12 Jan 2003 Posts: 208

i know how to spell. i just spell like this on the net Very Happy

at least i don't use l337 h4><0r3d speak...

and when did i claim to be smart? i'm half a tard...

btw, childcare is not the only option fpr most ppl. ppl are so obsessed with material things these days, both parents work so they can have all their toys...

just think how much thing like cable tv, internet, cell phones, expensive cars, boats, wakeboards, bindings, ropes, wetsuits, drysuits, fat sacs etc etc cost...none are needed.

i know this...anyone who ownz a boat and is making payments on it and puts thier kids in daycare, is seriously a child abuser...

RUSSIAN · Posted: Feb 05, 2003 11:51 pm Post subject:

what is l337 h4><0r3d speak, please fill me in Smile

RUSSIAN · Posted: Feb 05, 2003 11:54 pm Post subject:

when that kid is 25 what's he /she going to remember more, the time on the boat or the child care Cool

base · Outlaw Joined: 12 Jan 2003 Posts: 208

nick e[V]ans · Posted: Feb 06, 2003 2:18 am Post subject:

haha base i still cant get over you trying to tell people how to raise their kids, you'd be the expert wouldn't you. your parents did a great job on you. i remember you telling of how you smoked weed for 8 years straight, and you still believe your a good parent. hahahahaha your a comedian

base · Outlaw Joined: 12 Jan 2003 Posts: 208

haha...smoking weed equates to bad parenting.

okay so weed makes u a bad parent. alcohol makes you a very bad parent(since its much worse for u). and cigerettes make u a crackhead parent(since its worse then alcohol) so a cigarette yeilding, weed smoking alcoholic parent is hitler on iceskates. omg...that makes 128 ppl in utah who are actual good parents.

nick e[V]ans · Posted: Feb 06, 2003 3:17 am Post subject:

and you aren't one of them Laughing

base · Outlaw Joined: 12 Jan 2003 Posts: 208

your an idiot dude...seriously though

RKG · Criminal Joined: 15 Jan 2003 Posts: 94 City: Nashville

Jed: After rereading my post, I do not think it came out quite right. To say my child developed due to daycare was not exactly what I meant, but what I typed, so my bad. He is more socially adept and I believe that is in part due to day care and also due to parenting. IT boils downs to this, no matter if the kid is in day care,home, private school or public school, if the parents are not involved, the kid suffers.

Base, thank you for your comments on my son. Since you know us and everything, glad you could make your dimestore evaluation, especially that your girl is smarter. I guess I gonna have to get moving on my boy so he can aspire to your levels of wisdom. What suprises is the monitors allow you to insult people, but I know as soon as I throw one out there, it will be gone.

Here is my question for you Base: Ask yourself, why did you start this thread? Are you bitter since you are doing out without things and decided to lash out? I actually do commend you for putting your children first, way it should be, but I disagree with your slamming others for the way they live. If you knew me, you might know why my wife works. But you do not and decide to make blanket statements that make you feel good.

With that, I'm done.

Leggester · Posted: Feb 06, 2003 7:29 am Post subject:

Base, I truly am sorry your folks abandoned you when you were small, but there are therapists that can help. It's sad to see someone that needs to strike out at others in order to make themselves feel better. Especially at other people's children, to stoop so low is a sure sign of underdeveloped morality.

I see the jealousy and can understand it. I feel bad that you can't afford a boat for recreation since you don't even have the money to spend on daycare. Yes, hindsight is 20/20, and a lack of education is probably really hurting you right now. But, hey! Look on the bright side. Someday, your child will grow up and thank you for being there - or somewhere like the internet insulting a bunch of strangers.

Tell ya what man. Why not take some of the time that you use to abuse the internet and spend it with the child that your wife takes care of? It may make you feel much better, if the court injunctions allow visitation rights.

And yes, while I am a moron, at least I'm a happy one that doesn't need to abuse others to make myself feel like I actually have a life.

base · Outlaw Joined: 12 Jan 2003 Posts: 208

don't worry leg...its not ur fault.

i paid cash for my boat....but i was rich back then Wink

jedsterr · Soul Rider Joined: 13 Jan 2003 Posts: 291 City: Star Idaho

RKG. I tried to be careful to not be terribly critical of your post. Your point is valid & it would be very difficult to disprove your opinion or mine.

I whole heartedly agree that it is the level of involvement of the parents duing the time they do spend together that makes all the difference. I'm sure we can all imagine a houshold where Mom and/or dad are in the home all day yet the child gets little or no posative interaction with said parents.

I am actually glad that this post happened because it causes many of us to pause & consider the way we parent. I know I have.

-Jed

JHrod · Wakeboarder.com Freak Joined: 12 Jan 2003 Posts: 3144

Jello John · Wakeboarder.Commie Joined: 12 Jan 2003 Posts: 1936

JHrod · Wakeboarder.com Freak Joined: 12 Jan 2003 Posts: 3144

well instead of saying"well son u r really good with the ladies" u can say" Way to kick his ass tommy"

ohsix · Posted: Feb 06, 2003 5:11 pm Post subject:

Sean_Brinston · Posted: Feb 06, 2003 5:16 pm Post subject:

I would deffinitly think that daycare would help kids or children develop social skills at an early age. And help them to interact.

base · Outlaw Joined: 12 Jan 2003 Posts: 208

so i was right, most of u are child abusers who try to rationalize it away.

yeah guys...daycare is better for kids the not...

good one

obviously u weirdos don't know how 95% of daycares work...

oh wait...ur kids go to the 5% daycares....the ones that cost 800-1000 a month...hmmm

ohsix · Posted: Feb 06, 2003 8:41 pm Post subject:

im a product of daycare. it sucked but i dont think it hurt me any. actually i learned how to cuss at daycare and throw rocks at cars. so it was an educational experience.

base · Outlaw Joined: 12 Jan 2003 Posts: 208

see daycare is good.

the only thing i see good about daycare is that it helps kids to build up their ammune system early by getting them sick alot....

but that might not be a good thang...who knows

Jello John · Wakeboarder.Commie Joined: 12 Jan 2003 Posts: 1936

ohsix · Posted: Feb 06, 2003 11:30 pm Post subject:

base · Outlaw Joined: 12 Jan 2003 Posts: 208

a...i...same difference...

nick e[V]ans · Posted: Feb 10, 2003 12:15 am Post subject:

not really base, please provide evidence for what your saying. all your doing is making a whole bunch of random abusive claims with no supporting evidence. and you wonder why people dont believe you. show me the proof and i'll believe it. i came through child care and i have no social, health, mental or physical problems.
haha that sounded funny but yes it is infact true.
nick

Leggester · Posted: Feb 10, 2003 7:56 am Post subject:

I doubt you'll see Base try to prove anything.

On this, as well as the 'last' board, he just wanted to get some strife going.

I feel sorry for him.

But he's still an ass.

impulse · Addict Joined: 13 Jan 2003 Posts: 807 City: Snyder,TX

I work with family so I get to bring my daughter to work with me. I can see both sides of this debate but for those who are saying to keep the kids out of daycare, I agree if you are allowing your child to interact with other children. I have a cousin who did not get to interact and she did not have very good social skills at all.

As I said before I get to take my daughter with me to work, but I still want my wife to get to stay home with our child. She is a teacher and next year she will not be working.

Base wrote.
"errr...no, if u care about ur kids, u do what u have to do to have 1 parent stay at home. if u can't provide by urself then do something else...work 2-3 jobs, sell stuff on ebay(like my wife)...do what u gotta do."

I dont think I would be very comfortable selling your wife on ebay. I mean it was a great offer but i think i will pass.

nick e[V]ans · Posted: Feb 11, 2003 12:43 am Post subject:

come on base, hit me up with some actual proof, make yourself look even semi intelligent for us. come on, i'm begging